Infidelity Investigations
Stop wondering. Know the truth.
Discreet, lawful infidelity investigations that replace suspicion with facts, handled with complete confidentiality and compassion. Former FBI agents and attorneys. Licensed in New York State.
Former FBIAttorney LedLicensed in New York State
You're Not Alone
If you're questioning things, you're in good company.
Infidelity is more common than most people realize, and it is rarely only physical. Whatever brought you here, the goal is the same: clear answers, so you can stop guessing and decide what is right for you.
20%
of married men report sex outside the marriage, and it is likely an undercount
76%
of Americans count a secret emotional affair as cheating, not only physical
60%
or more of couples stay together after discovering an affair
2x
the rate of divorce or separation is more than doubled after infidelity
Sources: General Social Survey (NORC at the University of Chicago) via the Institute for Family Studies; IFS 2020 iFidelity Survey.
How Common It Is
Infidelity is common, and usually underreported.
National survey data puts reported sex outside marriage at about one in five men and one in eight women. Because people answer these questions about themselves, researchers treat the figures as a floor, not a ceiling. The real question is never the statistic anyway. It is what is happening in your relationship, and that is a question we can actually answer.
Reported sex outside marriage, by gender
Self-reported figures, which researchers treat as a floor rather than a ceiling.
Men20%
Women13%
Source: General Social Survey, analyzed by the Institute for Family Studies.
Why Clarity Matters
The truth carries real weight.
In national survey data, people who had been unfaithful were far more likely to be divorced or separated than those who had not. That is an association, not proof that one causes the other, but it reflects something simple: the truth shapes real decisions, about your marriage, your finances, and your family. Those decisions are far better made on facts than on fear or doubt.
Divorced or separated, by infidelity history
An association found in survey data, not proof that one causes the other.
Had been unfaithful40%
Had not been unfaithful17%
Source: General Social Survey, analyzed by the Institute for Family Studies.
Every Situation Is Different
Suspected infidelity in a marriage or relationship
The most common reason people call is a feeling that something has changed. A spouse who has grown distant, a partner suddenly protective of a phone, unexplained late nights or trips, a new password on everything, or a fiancé you want to be sure of before the wedding. We handle all of it, for married couples and dating partners alike, and for same-sex and opposite-sex relationships equally.
Suspected cheating spouseBoyfriend or girlfriendFiancé, before the weddingWorking late & frequent tripsSecret second phone or accountsSame-sex relationships
Online, emotional, and long-distance affairs
Not every affair is physical, and many begin on a screen. Secret dating profiles, an emotional affair kept hidden, sexting, a catfisher posing as someone they are not, or a long-distance partner whose story does not quite add up. These are some of the fastest-growing situations we see, and often the hardest for someone to confirm on their own.
Online & emotional affairsSecret dating profilesCatfishing & fake profilesSexting & hidden messagingLong-distance verificationReconciliation, has it stopped
When it affects custody, support, or finances
Sometimes infidelity is tangled up with decisions that carry legal and financial weight. An ex who may be living with a new partner in a way that affects spousal support, a new partner spending time around your children, hidden spending and secret accounts funding an affair, or the simple need for clear documentation as you head into a divorce. We work closely with family-law counsel, and our findings are documented to hold up.
Cohabitation & alimonyNew partners around childrenFinancial infidelityHidden spending & accountsEvidence for divorceFamily-law support
How We Work
How an infidelity case works.
Discreet, lawful, and handled with care, so you get the truth and, if you need it, evidence that holds.
01
Confidential consultation
You tell us what you are seeing, and we listen, in complete privacy and without any judgment.
02
A plan that fits
We tailor the approach to your specific situation and the questions you most need answered.
03
Lawful surveillance
We observe and document discreetly, within New York law, with no trespass and no contact.
04
Clear documentation
You receive time-stamped video, photographs, and a detailed activity log of what we saw.
05
Honest findings
We tell you what we found plainly, whether or not it confirms what you feared.
06
Support for next steps
You get evidence you can use, and referrals to trusted professionals if you want them.
Why Insight
Handled with discretion, and with care.
Our team brings more than 70 years of combined investigative, intelligence, and legal experience, and real compassion for what you are going through.
Former FBI and national security
Our investigators come from the FBI and national security backgrounds, trained in discreet surveillance and evidence.
Completely confidential
Discretion is the heart of this work. Your case stays private, and our surveillance is designed not to be noticed.
Licensed in New York State
We are fully licensed New York State investigators, working within state privacy, surveillance, and recording law.
Compassionate and non-judgmental
We know this is painful. We treat you with respect and honesty from the first call to the final report.
Questions
Common questions about infidelity cases.
Is an infidelity investigation legal?
Yes, when it is done correctly. We observe and document lawfully and in public view, with no trespass and no illegal recording or access to someone's phone or accounts. Working within the law is also what keeps the evidence usable.
What kinds of situations do you handle?
Every kind: married and dating, straight and same-sex, fiancés before a wedding, online and emotional affairs, catfishing, long-distance relationships, cohabitation and alimony questions, concerns about a partner around your children, and financial infidelity.
Will anyone know I hired you?
No. Discretion is the core of what we do. Your case is confidential, and our surveillance is planned and carried out so that it is not noticed by the person being observed or anyone else.
What if you don't find anything?
We tell you honestly, either way. Many clients find real peace of mind in confirming that nothing is going on. Our job is to give you the truth, not to tell you what you fear or what you hope to hear.
Get the certainty you deserve.
Speak with a licensed New York State investigator, in complete confidence. Former FBI, attorney led, and compassionate about what you are going through.
Sources & Data
General Social Survey (NORC at the University of Chicago), analyzed by the Institute for Family Studies. Reported rates of extramarital sex by gender, and the association between a history of infidelity and being divorced or separated. Self-reported figures are widely regarded as an undercount.
Institute for Family Studies, 2020 iFidelity Survey. Share of Americans who consider a secret emotional relationship to be a form of infidelity.
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1335 Jefferson Rd, Rochester, NY 14623